Drag Queen DivaELAINE LANCASTER'S LOVE, LIFE, AND MAKEUP TIPS
ISSUE No 1
Drag Queen Diva
ELAINE LANCASTER'S LOVE, LIFE, AND MAKEUP TIPS
For our ongoing advice column, we tapped Lancaster (AKA James Davis), who has made Miami fabulous for over a decade as an event host, real housewives actor, and philanthropist.
ISSUE No 1
You said on Twitter recently, “Honesty is a very expensive gift, don’t expect it from cheap people.” How honest should we really be with the people around us? In the words of John Lennon, “Being honest may not get you a lot of friends, but it’ll always get you the right ones.”
Where do we find men in Miami?
There are a lot of hot men in Miami without a doubt, most of which are on Rentboy.com! I find great guys are in group settings at restaurants like the Forge on Friday’s.. Maxwell Blandford plays sexy disco and nu disco and everyone is there wanting to have fun…they do. Later in the evening, they’re at Score for Ho’tel Lancaster.
Advice on how a housewife can keep life spicy?
Never make your partner feel foolish for wanting to try something less conventional. You can go from mild to wild…role playing etc. In a monogamous relationship, I do NOT suggest having a ménage à trois frequently to spice up the bedroom. It is not a smart recipe for long-term happiness and security.
Is it ever okay to make the first move?
Absolutely. If you want something and the other person is sending out vibes too, then lean in and go for it.
If they pull back, you pull back and lock eyes to read them and let them know you are serious. Try again and if they pull away, then walk away—you are of officially in the “Friend Zone.”
What makes a great diva?
A person who is self-assured, extremely talented, and gets what she wants because she has earned the respect of those around her. A real diva should never have to demand anything or really even ask; people should be there to take care of the diva’s every desire because a true diva will take care of you too.
What’s more important: love or a career that you love?
If one is happy in their career and really love what they do, then the joy and love will spill over into all areas of life. And the opposite is also true. Unhappy people because of their work are not pleasant folks to be around.
Advice for keeping a relationship exciting?
Find joy in the simple things and put priority on doing them often. If you have children then grandma gets them at least one weekend a month, so you can have the house alone together and spend the weekend naked and acting silly. Remember to practice non-judgment with your mate and do not go around telling your girlfriends about everything. Learn to keep relationship secrets.
Makeup tricks so it doesn’t look like we’re melting on a sunny day?
Wear high-quality foundation if you need it, and setting powder is key to keeping it all in place. ElaineLancasterCosmetics.com for the best quality, longest-lasting lip lacquers you can find anywhere.